2026-04-04

Morning Reach Check

• Alignment target: Make today something the family can actually feel, not just another internally productive day.
• One lever action: Keep phone use tightly bounded; Jono explicitly named this message as his only interaction and wants the rest of the day lived in presence.
• Family-feels-it lens: Jess, Huddy, and Ava should feel more availability, more warmth, and less split attention.
• Drift to refuse today: Pseudo-productive phone checking and any quiet slide back into fragmented attention.
• Notes: Jono's reply was clear and clean: "This is my only interaction. Lets make them feel it today."

Midday Reset

• Still on the chosen day?
• Novelty hijack spotted?
• Next concrete move:
• Notes:

Evening Integrity Check

• Where I kept my word:
• Where I negotiated:
• What people actually felt:
• Tighten / forgive / carry forward:
• Notes:

Weekly Reach Review

Fill only on weekly review day.

• Best energy went to:
• Leftovers went to:
• Pillar that moved:
• Pillar that drifted:
• Truth vs managed/safe:
• Cut / protect / advance next week:
• Notes: